How You Can Make Time for Every-Day Romance 

With work, family, and the constant stream of daily responsibilities, it’s easy to feel like there’s little time left for romance. But romance isn't just for newlyweds or couples with no responsibilities—it’s for anyone who wants to infuse their life with a little more passion, excitement, and connection, no matter how packed their schedule is. Here’s how you can make time for romance, whether you're in a relationship or flying solo.

1. Schedule Date Nights (Yes, Really!)

For couples, date nights don’t have to be elaborate; they just need to happen! Carve out time each week (or even every other week) to enjoy each other’s company without distractions. It doesn’t have to be fancy—sometimes, a cozy dinner at home with a movie or playing a board game can be just as intimate as a night out. For singles, you can apply this idea by scheduling me dates. Go to a movie, have a solo dinner at your favorite restaurant, or take yourself on a walk through a scenic park. Romance isn’t just about finding someone else—it’s about treating yourself with love, too.

2. Flirt a Little (or a Lot!)

Flirting isn’t just for teenagers or the early days of a relationship—it’s a fun and simple way to add a spark to your daily life. For those in relationships, small acts like sending a flirty text, sharing a private joke, or giving a playful compliment can reignite feelings of attraction and excitement. Don’t be afraid to remind your partner why you were attracted to them in the first place. For singles, flirting can be a great way to practice confidence and remind yourself that you’re lovable and desirable, whether you’re interacting with a potential partner or just exchanging a smile with someone in the coffee shop.

3. Take Advantage of Small Moments

Romance doesn’t need to take up your whole evening. In fact, sometimes the smallest gestures can have the biggest impact. Hold hands with your partner while watching TV or surprise them with a morning kiss before heading out to work. If you're single, try to bring a little romance into your day-to-day life by savoring small moments—light candles while cooking dinner, take a moment to smell the flowers when you pass them, or treat yourself to a luxurious bath. Even taking a bit longer in the shower or complimenting yourself in the mirror can make a huge impact on how connected you feel to your romantic side. 

4. Unplug and Connect

We’re all guilty of getting lost in our phones, but disconnecting from screens for a while can help you reconnect with yourself and others. For couples, try a no-phone rule during dinner or when you’re spending quality time together. This can open up space for more meaningful conversations and deeper connection. For singles, consider setting aside time to unplug from social media, letting go of the pressure of comparison. Use that time to engage in activities that nurture your own passions, from journaling to reading a romance novel to getting creative with a new hobby.

5. Start New Traditions

If your current routine feels predictable, shake things up by introducing a new romantic tradition into your life. For couples, this might mean a monthly “staycation” in your own home, where you pretend you’re tourists in your own city. If weekends are run by your kid’s schedules, even starting small traditions can make a difference in your routine. Try “New Movie Wednesday” or “Crafting Friday”, where you can try something new from the comfort of your own home. For singles, starting a ritual like a monthly pampering evening (face masks, wine, and a good book) or a weekly walk in your favorite park can create a sense of romantic anticipation, even when you're on your own.

6. Be Spontaneous

Romance doesn’t always need to be planned—sometimes the most memorable moments come from spontaneous decisions. If you’re in a relationship, surprise your partner with a mid-week treat like a sweet note or a surprise lunch date. If you’re single, take yourself out on a whim to a place you’ve always wanted to explore. Life’s too short to wait for the “perfect” moment. Romance thrives on those unexpected, impromptu sparks.

7. Take Time for Self-Love

Finally, no matter your relationship status, the most important relationship you can nurture is the one you have with yourself. Practice self-care—whether that’s through yoga, taking long walks, enjoying a bubble bath, or simply sitting in silence with a cup of tea. Feeling good in your own skin makes you more open to both giving and receiving love, creating space for more romance in your life.

Romance isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity for keeping the joy and passion alive in our busy lives. Whether you're nurturing a relationship or learning to love yourself more deeply, there are always small ways to bring romance into your day-to-day routine. So, go ahead—make time for love, because you deserve it!